London tops the list of cities, with 62,000 Grindr users, which the company proudly points out is “1 in every 60 male Londoners.” Users spend an average of 1.3 hours a day logged on. But nowhere is Grindr more popular than in the U.K., where there are more than 160,000 users, which means, after adjusting for population, almost twice as many gay Brits use Grindr as gay Americans do. Grindr claims its app has more than a million users in more than 180 countries, including Sri Lanka, Djibouti, Haiti, Iraq, and Iran, places where being gay can get you killed. Even at gay bars: cruising within cruising. Could this crude little iPhone app be every single gay man’s dream: to be able to cruise anywhere, anytime? Shopping? Why not! Meet me in Aisle C! Killing time at the airport? I’m sitting at Gate 17. Suddenly, it became clear to me what his excitement was about. And then, “Oh, 413 feet!” Sensing my annoyance, he showed me his phone: dozens of little thumbnail pictures of guys, with little blurbs about themselves, organized from top to bottom in order of proximity. A smart, attractive, chronically single friend of mine had been feverishly fidgeting with his iPhone for half a dozen blocks, somehow navigating the crowded sidewalks without once lifting his gaze from the screen. Lamar Dawson is a pop culture junkie living in Manhattan. Ditch him, or just keep him around as a booty call that you kick out at 2am. “Whenever I’m with a woman and she doubts herself or can’t make up her mind, it makes me feel like I’m with my little sister.” If you run into a man who doesn’t appreciate your mind or support your ambitions, he’s living in the past and doesn’t belong in your future. “A woman who’s confident and self-assured is sexy and fun to be around,” a friend of mine said. Guys love to post that “what do you want?” scene from The Notebook to make fun of how indecisive women can be, but women today don’t subscribe to patriarchal, submissive crap anymore.
#Beautiful gay men feet full#
Men today have grown up in a society full of strong, take charge women-and they love it.
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It was nearly 18 years ago that Destiny’s Child gave women an anthem about celebrating their independence. If you leave his place at 2:00 in the morning, and he doesn’t make sure you have a Lyft waiting (not Uber because he knows they’re sexist AF) and that you get into your bed soundly, block him and delete his number. Most guys have protective instincts and will exhibit this trait when they’re into you. Lastly, if he doesn’t care about your whereabouts or if you’re safe, he doesn’t care about you. Second, if he can’t make room for you in his day, you’re not a priority. First, if the relationship is all physical and not emotional, you’re a booty call. I can’t explain that, but I can tell you guys do drop very clear hints about how they feel about you-or if they don’t want to see you anymore, but are too chicken to call it off. One second he’s all over you, telling you how beautiful you are, and the next he’s flaking on plans you made weeks ago and doesn’t understand why that upsets you. I know guys can send mixed signals sometimes. You shouldn’t be the only one initiating plans or doing all of the communicating. Playing games is frustrating, but what do you expect from a grown man who still plays video games? Match your effort to his. So, while you’re lying there planning the next date and when you’ll introduce him to your friends, he’s thinking about the leftover pita in the fridge. Apparently, after an orgasm (assuming he can actually give you one), the hormone oxytocin is released in men and women, but ladies get a healthier dose. “If a girl has ugly feet or chipped nails, it’s a turn off.” Side bar, I asked both of these guys to recall the last time either of them clipped their toenails and neither could.ĭo women become attached faster than men? Again, science says “ yep”-especially after having sex. “It looks like she doesn’t take care of herself,” said one guy. I polled a few guys about this and the majority of them said they notice when a woman’s nails are in bad shape. He may not know your new nail polish is millennial pink, but he definitely noticed you were overdue for a mani-pedi. You might not think guys notice the little things, but most do. Yikes! Ask open-ended questions and when all else fails try, “tell me more about that.” It works like a charm.
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He told me my friend was a bad listener, interrupted him a lot and he couldn’t a word in.
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One time, I ran into one of my girlfriend’s dates, and I asked him why he didn’t text my friend back.
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Listen, it’s not your fault you developed language and reading skills faster than us, but if you want a text back after your next date, try listening more and talking less. According to a University of Maryland study, women utter more words per day-about 20,000 to men’s 7,000.